aspects for 9 months and do not know what to expect 
See friends who have already had children that are overjoyed and say how wonderful pregnancy and birth of a child.
Then the child is born and you are happy, but also disorientated by hormones, you do not know how to behave, and continues to cry so much that you seem to live in a valley of tears.
's all normal, only you do not know, because her friends do not tell these things.
Then there is breast-feeding. In Italy is implementing a campaign for breast-feeding and in some hospitals as "baby friends (and enemies of the mother, I might add) follow this guideline to the exasperation of the mothers. Furthermore, all this fury is useless to me because 99% of mothers is already convinced of the convenience of breastfeeding and the goodness of milk
You get the opposite effect because so many mothers give up breastfeeding for a longer convenient formula feeding.
nest in the hospital where I was hospitalized, was shown a DVD that showed breastfeeding mothers milk packed with attacking their babies at the breast with ease making it seem like the most natural thing in the world, pity that the reality is very different because:
1) you say that when the baby is born immediately placing the mummy's tummy calms down and begins to take the breast ... .. in my case the girl was on my belly and it was hysterical cried for two hours and did not want to attach. Probably when they pulled out was doing the midnight snack and did not like the interruption
1) almost always the baby does not stick easily in the following days because they do not even have enough strength or perhaps because he has to learn and takes time.
2) the milk comes after about three days. First there is the colostrum, but because it does not stick Nenon can not eat it becoming more and more nervous (you try to stay on a fast)
Nell ' Baby Friendly Hospital and an enemy of the mother did not talk about it to give added pull of infant formula or milk and give it with the bottle because this inevitably undermine the suck !!!!! result: a hypo for the child and stress for both the new mother. In addition, this history of sucking is not always true. In my case the girl was attacked after a month, quietly and with its time. In the meantime I had to suffer the slavery of the pump and give some added artificial when my milk was not enough.
Why write this post? because there are so many moms / mums in my situation, I would say the vast majority. If someone goes out of here by chance that I would say:
1) give birth in a hospital where a friend of the child not be afraid to ask for an addition of infant formula if you see clearly that the child suffers from hunger. Everyone has their own time that are not necessarily those imposed by the hospital
2) Do not feel guilty, as I read on some forums, if tirandoti milk after a month has gone. Not depend on the pump it up to you ... there are those who simply have a lot of milk and who has little and you can not do anything. The important thing is that the child will grow
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